Body language
As you could see and learn from the first lesson, having a confident attitude makes a difference. It does not count so much what you tell to a woman (of course, you must avoid direct sentences like: ‘Hey foxy lady, wanna go for a drink?’ as this will only make her run as fast as she can in case she follows some moral principles), but it counts the way you say it.
Having a pleasant, calm voice, not to loud (she might think you are always put on a fight) and not to soft (are you a man or what?), can illustrate an attitude of a man who knows what he wants and is confident in his power. Also, be careful at your body language. The way you stand when you talk with the lady can make you look like millions and complete what you are saying, or it can wipe you out from the business in three seconds. Stand up straight, but not too rigid, look into her eyes, but try not to stare and try to look friendly and relaxed.
Reading this will make you think it’s a piece of cake, but I warn you, practice is needed until you get to have the perfect attitude when being around women. Do not give up if you can’t get it from the first tries. At home think of what were your mistakes, where did you stumble and keep on practicing until you get it right. Even men who have success into flirting with women receive rejections sometimes, but they have learned to move on, accept that fact and improve their flirting technique. You can do that too. Read more.
Some men are desperate for dating, but they never succeed into doing that. Here is their mistake: they focus so much on women, they want them so much, that they end up overlooking other important aspects like their self-esteem. Self confidence can not be gained just by saying: ‘I want to go out with that woman and I will succeed. I can do it.’ No, first of all you must focus on yourself. Try to find a hobby (something that does not have to do with women), as this might get you more relaxed, will raise your self esteem and will help you think better on what you have to do next. Who knows, you might even make more friends, who will help you indirectly with your social abilities.
So keep on practicing these new tips and you will see how the future will look much better than before.
