I am ready to meet women
Yes, being socially isolated can really be a problem. It can get in the way of meeting new people, including attractive women. Many young men that want to find a girl and make a nice couple complain that they don’t have too many opportunities of succeeding in flirting with women because they rarely meet one. What they surely don’t realize is the fact that they are too used to saying “no” to invitations coming from potential future friends and even girlfriends. Yes, think of all the times you have rejected a party invitation and have lost any hope of meeting girls.
The reasons why you seem to reject invitations too often might consist in your perspectives over those invitations or over the people that want to hang out with you.
One of these reasons would be the fact that you always think about the money you spend. You should admit that you have never rejected a dinner invitation just because you thought about those few dollars you would have spent and you would have rather invested them in something else. This is a wrong perception you have over invitations. With that money you would have positively invested in your romantic future. And I will tell you later how.
Another wrong thing you do is to judge people premature. You often refuse invitations just because the person who has invited you seems too good for you or too under your level. Don’t think in this way any more. You can never get to know a person good enough if you do not get to spend a few days talking and interacting with her. And I’m not talking here about the time you interact with that person at work, as no one is the same at work as it is in its spare time. Get over your misconceptions and go for it. Learn to say “yes” to invitations as you have nothing to loose, maybe just some of the time you would have spent anyway alone in front of your TV.
Another reason why you unconsciously reject invitations would be the fact that you are hopeless. You believe that no invitation is worth honoring as you will never get to meet girls anyway and even if you will get to meet some they will probably be too fat or too old. Change your wrong mentality and have a little bit of trust in your destiny. You can never know when the rabbit will jump for you.
In the beginning I’m sure you will find it hard to accept invitations but take things slowly. Think of how many opportunities of meeting women you miss juts because you live isolated. Even by accepting one or two invitations a month is something good. Maybe some of your social interactions will prove to have been inspired and you will get to make new friends that in time will present you to other friends, including women.
Don’t miss your chance by saying “no” to invitations. Say “yes” and be ready to face your destiny
