Play a game and learn where you go wrong when flirting

So you got rejected. That is not a tragedy. You should know that if you are lucky you might get five ‘no’ answers and only one ‘yes’ answer form women you flirt with, and this is as I said: if you are lucky! This does not mean that your flirting was ineffective all the times. Consider that maybe one of those women was married, two had a serious relationship on the role and only two might not have been convinced by your flirting. Analyze what you did wrong in the process of convincing those women to go out with you. Sometimes you don’t even realize that some of your methods are old or are just disliked by women.

One solution to finding out what you did wrong is to ask the women about flirting. But you must do this in a careful, well planned way as you can not go to the woman that has rejected you and ask her what went wrong: she will never tell you the truth (as she might not want to hurt your feelings), or she will turn her back on you, leaving you with no answer as she just doesn’t want to waist time with you. One solution that seems to work is to pretend that you are a writer or a journalist and you want to write a book or an article about “The worst flirting phrases men tell to women”. The idea is to go to a restaurant for example (not a bar as you might not understand each other if the music is too loud) and look for a group of women and ask them what were the worse flirting phrases they heard from men. Generally try this at lunch time as women seem to be less suspicious and more relaxed after eating something and even drinking a small glass of alcohol. Plus, they might be quite interested in this “inquiry” you make as they will have quite something to talk about at the office. Plus, women in general find book writers quite romantic and they will like to give you a hand at writing “your book”.

Surprisingly or not you might find out that some of your flirting methods are mentioned by them as being annoying. Plus, you will even get to know those women better by enlarging the conversation and you might end up that lunch with one phone number and a dinner planed for the next day.