The first date

So, you finally got your most wanted date with a woman. I’m sure your head is filled with joy and happiness because your flirting succeeded, but you should not lay back and enjoy the victory as you are not done yet. For a lot of people the first date is very important and the way it will go will make the woman decide whether to give you a kiss at the end of it, to see you again or to forget she ever met you and move on with her life.

The first date with a woman is something scary for most of the shy guys. Generally, during this date a lot of mistakes are being made (by both parts, so don’t worry if you spill some wrong beans because she will do that too at her time) and this is why in this lesson you will learn what are the most common mistakes men do during first dates and how to avoid making them.

One of the major mistakes some people do is picking up the wrong place to go for during the first date. This date will be remembered for ever and this is why you must pick a nice, comfortable place, where you can understand each others words (this means that the music level should be decent in that place). Avoid the usual pubs you go with your friends in weekends as they are crowded, noisy, and can’t create the perfect atmosphere for a romantic date. If your date seems to be delicate and romantic the most ideal place to take her to would be a classic restaurant. Some of these restaurants have spicy prices but your investment might turn out to have been inspired as your chances to repeat that date increase with this move.

Another thing to remember is the distance you should keep between you and her. Try not to sit too close as she does not need to feel your breath down her neck. Also, leaving a too large space between you and her is not good either. I believe that a fair distance would be sitting face to face at the table (with the condition that the table is small, not 2 meters long). If you go to a place where the furniture is based on couches, you can allow 50-60cm to separate you and your date. This separation is needed so that you can observe each other well, be able to hear each others words without shouting and maintain a perfect visual contact.

Flowers are a great idea, so if you think your date would appreciate this gesture, well, you are not wrong at all. Women love small gifts and appreciate every affection gestures they receive. You can go for a red rose (this only if you are really in loved with that woman) or just opt for a bouquet of delicate pinkish roses.

In the next lesson other tips on how to communicate and entertain your date will be relieved.