When you get stood up by her

In this lesson you will learn how to deal with a woman that does not show up on a date. A lot of men get stood up and do not have an appropriate way of handling things in their favor. Most of them fall into a ridiculous posture after confronting with the woman that did not show up on the date. Things can be easily turned around into your advantage and in this lesson you will learn how.

So, let’s start with the beginning. You go to the meeting point you both agreed on and you wait. But the question you should ask yourself is: how much should I wait for her? The answer is easy. You should probably wait 15 minutes. This will make you look understanding to her being late and will also keep you away from looking like a fool. If you wait for her more and she comes after 20 or 25 minutes let’s say, she will consider you a sucker that she will always be able to control. By waiting 15 minutes you show her that you have respect for you and your time and so should she if she wants to be treated fairly.

Some women let their date know if they will be late. So, it is important to get yourself an answering machine. This way you will know if she has called to let you know she will run late or to postpone the date. By checking your machine after waiting 15 minutes you will know if you should wait more or not. Those women who did not call in the 15 minute interval are most likely not to come at the date.

So, let’s say she did not show up on the date. You go back home and think what to do next. A lot of men make a tremendous mistake at this point: they call up that woman to let her know they waited for her and she never came. This is not a great solution as it will only make you look desperate and without any dignity at all. You should call her, but not in the same day with the date. Call her the next day and tell her how much you are sorry that YOU did not make it for the date. Tell her you regret leaving her there to wait for you but you just could not leave from work as something came up. Also, tell her you will make it up to her if she allows you to take her out on a new date. At this point you will find out if she is an honest person or not. She might admit that she did not come and apologize too, or she might say: “Yes, you left me waiting for you 20 minutes out there”. Don’t less her that you know she is a liar. Ask her for another date, promising that you will make it up to her. Most of them will accept this second date and so, you will get to seduce her too, as you first wanted.

So, as you could read here this is the best approach to a woman when you get stood up by her.